Teach Your Child to Follow Directions the Fun and Easy Way

Have you ever wondered how to teach your child to follow directions without it turning into a power struggle? The key is to focus on following directions as a skill that children can learn gradually in the same fun ways that they can learn their colors or to tie their shoes.

Here's the Following Directions Game:

The best age to introduce this game is around one year, but you can introduce it any time, adjusting to their age and skill level. Keep in mind your child's attention span—keep the game short, and stop before the kids are tired of it.
Tell your child, "I have a game. It's called the Following Directions Game. I'll tell you something to do, and you see if you can do it."
 
Start off with one instruction. Demonstrate while saying, "Touch your nose."

When they do that, give them a second instruction, "Touch your head."
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The Magic Formula for Happy Kids

The Magic Formula for Happy Kids

Did you know that the secret to a happy marriage is the same as the secret to happy kids? It's a simple ratio. John Gottman, a marriage researcher, found that a ratio of 5 positive interactions to each one negative interaction tipped the balance from a troubled relationship to a happy, healthy relationship. He called this the Magic Ratio.

You can apply this principle today with your child. Start by noticing your positive and negative interactions. Keep a chart on the fridge and make tally marks to help you keep track. Andrew Armstrong researched this ratio between parents and small children and found that his control group generally had a 1:1 ratio of positive to negative interactions with their young children.

Good parents often are more negative with their kids than they realize. The squeaky wheel gets the grease, right? So the behaviors that need to be "fixed" are the ones that get the attention from us. It comes much less naturally to continually notice the good.

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