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How to Address Screeching “My nine-month-old has found his voice…in the form of an ear-piercing shriek! Do I just try to wait it out until he learns words, or are there ways I can teach him more mom-friendly sounds?” There are three main reasons for children loudly screeching in their communication, and the reason your child is screeching will determine the best course of action. He may be experimenting with his voice. Babies are just learning how to control what comes out of their mouths. They learn by experimentation with mouth shape, throat constriction, air flow, and vocal cords. And, yep, some of that experimentation will be loud! You can tell if this is what your baby is doing by reading his face and body language. If he seems upset, there is likely another reason behind the screeching. But if he is happy or neutral, it is likely vocal experimentation. The best thing for a...
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How to Have a Happy Grocery Shopping Trip With Your Preschooler Is grocery shopping a nightmare for you? Fussy kids, grumpy mom, whining for Lucky Charms, strangers staring, coming home with the wrong items because you couldn’t concentrate. Sound familiar? We used three simple rules that made grocery trips a whole lot smoother. We recited both the rules and the consequences together in the car before every shopping trip, because little ones can’t always remember the rules from week to week. Kids also need to say the rules themselves, not just hear them. Rule 1: Don’t touch. For the safety of the children and the merchandise, kids are only allowed to touch what mom hands them. Let them help with anything they can’t damage. They can put items in a child-sized basket or in the big basket. Rule 2: Stay where you can see Mom. You need to state this from the child’s perspective—a preschooler can’t take someone else’s perspective, so they...
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Teach Your Child to Follow Directions the Fun and Easy Way Have you ever wondered how to teach your child to follow directions without it turning into a power struggle? The key is to focus on following directions as a skill that children can learn gradually in the same fun ways that they can learn their colors or to tie their shoes. Here’s the Following Directions Game: The best age to introduce this game is around one year, but you can introduce it any time, adjusting to their age and skill level. Keep in mind your child’s attention span—keep the game short, and stop before the kids are tired of it. Tell your child, “I have a game. It’s called the Following Directions Game. I’ll tell you something to do, and you see if you can do it.” Start off with one instruction. Demonstrate while saying, “Touch your nose.” When they do that, give them a second instruction, “Touch your head.” For...
Did you know that the secret to a happy marriage is the same as the secret to happy kids? It’s a simple ratio. John Gottman, a marriage researcher, found that a ratio of 5 positive interactions to each one negative interaction tipped the balance from a troubled relationship to a happy, healthy relationship. He called this the Magic Ratio. You can apply this principle today with your child. Start by noticing your positive and negative interactions. Keep a chart on the fridge and make tally marks to help you keep track. Andrew Armstrong researched this ratio between parents and small children and found that his control group generally had a 1:1 ratio of positive to negative interactions with their young children. Good parents often are more negative with their kids than they realize. The squeaky wheel gets the grease, right? So the behaviors that need to be “fixed” are the ones...

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Welcome to Growth and Giggles! I’m guessing you’re here because you want to make the most of the few precious years you have with your preschoolers, and to keep your head above water while doing it. This blog is here to give you weekly ideas, encouragement, and wisdom. Our posts will answer common questions, help you understand what’s going on behind that mischievous smile or those big, innocent eyes, refresh you as a mother, and give you lots of playtime activities that will help your child grow and learn. If you want all these creative ideas in your inbox, enter your email address to subscribe. We’ll be posting weekly, and we will never share your email address. Leave your parenting, learning, and playing questions in the comments and we’ll try to answer them in future posts. Thanks for stopping by!  ...